
Shirley Jones Heffner
June 15, 1922 - October 05, 2017
Obituary
Shirley Virginia (Jones) Heffner, 95, passed away of natural causes on October 5, 2017, in Billings, MT, at Highgate Senior Living. She was born on June 15, 1922, to William Joseph Jones and Mary Immaculata Shields at the family home in Red Lodge, MT. She was the youngest of four girls: Marion “Ollie” (John) Kerrigan; Helen “Babe” (Walter) Lantz; and Patricia (Walter) Bloom. In 1925 her family moved to Detroit, Michigan, where Shirley attended elementary school and graduated from Southeastern High School. She played in an all-girls band and after high school she moved back to Montana. She was married to Max Heffner on December 26, 1943, in Red Lodge. They were divorced in 1974. Shirley was the loving mother of 7 children. She was a lively, funny Irish woman who loved people and life. She loved to crochet and knit, grow roses and peonies, grow a garden, bake bread, Blarney stones, lemon meringue pies and cinnamon rolls, make sour dough pancakes, and mix Irish cream and Kahlua for the holidays. She was noted for sharing real rum ball cookies during the holidays with her friends and co-workers. She loved spending time in Red Lodge and at Cooney Dam, fishing, visiting family on the Stillwater River, and traveling to different vacation destinations. She collected snow babies and copper sculptures. During her life she worked for a tire company, Midland National Bank in Billings, and the Bureau of Land Management. She played piano, organ, clarinet, accordion, and tenor and alto saxophone, was a former member of the Billings Community Band, and was a member of the Sweet Adelines. She was a member of St. Patrick's Co-Cathedral, a Sunday collection counter, and a provider of food for funerals. Survivors include: Patricia Stubbs; Phyllis (William C.) Ulrickson; Dennis Heffner (Doris Sramek); Michael Heffner (Georgia Goodman); Jeanine (Steve) Blehm; Mary Whipple; Gerard Heffner (Karen Schafer); 14 grandchildren; 12 great-grandchildren and 1 great-great granddaughter, and numerous nieces and nephews. She was preceded in death by her parents, sisters, son-in-law Gordon “Tom” Stubbs, son-in-law Duke Whipple, and grandson Patrick Ulrickson. Special thanks to the wonderful staff at Highgate Senior Living for their care of our mother. Visitation will be 10 am to 3 pm Saturday, 10 am to 6 pm Monday at Dahl Funeral Chapel. Rosary will be on Monday, October 9, 2017, at the Dahl Funeral Chapel at 6:00 p.m. Funeral Mass of Celebration will be on Tuesday, October 10, 2017, at St. Patrick Co-Cathedral at noon. Committal will be in Red Lodge Cemetery.
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Kathy Robins
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Dear Phyllis and all the Heffner Family, My goodness! What a fine lady! I remember how much energy she had and also her tiny little feet! Last year, when we were at the Community Band concert, she insisted on walking all the way to the car on those tiny feet. No curbside service for Shirley! She was determined to walk and so she did. She was strong and always quick to laugh! Our warmest regards to all. You have a wonderful family. Your mother was exceptional! Love, Kathy and Jim Robins
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Judy(Brown) Collins
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To the Heffner Family, We were so sorry to hear about Shirley. She was a wonderful lady and neighbor and such a great friend to my mom. Last time we saw her she was in her yard working away. She will always be remembered. Judy(Brown) and Tom Collins
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Kathie Bailey
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Shirley will be missed. Our family has many wonderful memories of time spent with her from the trip to Portland to see Dodie and Dennis, to Acacia's graduation and playing Apples to Apples with her, to her great cooking, especially that special bread that she made. Her sense of humor, and gift to make everyone feel loved will definitely be missed by all Rod and me and also our kids. Shirley was very much a part of our family. Love to all of you. Kathie and Rod Bailey
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Sharon Hunt Ross
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I have loving memories of Aunt Shirley. She was such a sweet loving person.❤❤❤❤