
Stephen Wood
March 28, 1941 - July 01, 2016
Obituary
Stephen Louis Wood, husband, father, brother and friend, died Friday, July 1, 2016, at the age of 75. Steve was a proud Montanan, hailing from the Stacey community, south of Miles City. Born to Agnes Mae (Gold) and Eugene Wood, Steve grew up on the family ranch. Nicknamed “Soupbone” by his grandfather, Jack Gold, Steve attended South Stacey country school. Athletics were a lifelong passion, beginning at Custer County High School where he excelled in football, basketball, and track. Stephen attended the University of Montana in Missoula on a football scholarship, relishing his time as a cornerback for the Grizzly Grid Great. “Up with Montana, boys!” Stephen was a natural teacher and coach. His coaching career began in Kellogg, Idaho and eventually took him to Chester, Montana, where Steve coached football and wrestling. He founded and built the Coyotes' high school wrestling program, culminating with a state wrestling championship in 1974. That year, Steve was voted Montana Wrestling Coach of the Year. Later in life, Steve would return to coaching in Savage, Montana, leading the eight-man football team. In total, Steve taught high school History, Government, and Social Studies. In 1974, Steve married fellow teacher, Jan Wingenbach. Their 41 years together consisted of many adventures, including raising four children, multiple moves across Montana, and the pursuit of higher education. As he got older, time spent with his grandchildren became a cherished blessing that Steve never took for granted. Steve returned to ranching in 1976 and after several years in Stacey, eventually moved closer to Miles City in 1985. Like his father and grandfather, Stephen was a member of the American Hereford Association. Other endeavors would eventually take Jan and Steve to Minnesota, Helena, and finally Billings. Steve was a longtime member of the Montana Officials Association, refereeing high school basketball, football and wrestling. In the course of his officiating career, Steve gleefully recalled being spit on, hit with a purse, and booed on multiple occasions. Quick with a joke, Steve was a gregarious and energetic individual, both as a prankster and a storyteller. Hobbies included gardening, pickling, canning his own salsa, and making wooden benches and tables. He loved Montana history, but especially despised anything resembling science fiction. Steve enjoyed country western music and was often found on the dance floor. He was fond of milkshakes, colorful knock knock jokes and betting high in 500. Always a competitor, he was a loyal and lifelong fan of the Dodgers and the Dallas Cowboys. Steve was graced with both a youthful spirit and a militant work ethic. He persevered through any setback with his usual wit and humor. One of his greatest gifts was his ability to draw out anyone's life story. No one was a stranger when chatting with Steve Wood. His smile, his fortitude, and his unique charm will be greatly missed by all who were blessed to know him. Steve is preceded in death by his parents, Agnes Mae and Eugene Wood, and his sister, Blanche Wood. He is survived by his wife of 41 years, Jan, of Billings; sons Bridgier (Allison), of Boise, Idaho, and Colin, of Portland Oregon; daughters Hannah (John) Donohue of Portland, Oregon, and Meghan (Matt) Cardoza of Boise, Idaho; sister Helen Jeanne Jones (Walt) of Cottonwood, Arizona and his twin sister Sandra Wood of Volborg, Montana; and 10 grandchildren, Morgan and Ian Wood, Addison, Elysse and Ilana Cardoza, all of Boise, Idaho, as well as Lucy and Aidan Wood, Clara, Jack and Charlotte Donohue, all from Portland, Oregon. In lieu of flowers, memorials can be made to St. Vincent DePaul in Billings, Montana. Friends and family are invited to share stories and memories at a Vigil on Tuesday, July 5th, 6pm, St. Patrick Co-Cathedral in Billings, Montana. A Funeral Mass will be celebrated at noon on Wednesday, July 6th, St. Patrick Co-Cathedral, with a luncheon to follow. Friends and family are welcome to the graveside service at the Custer County Cemetary, Miles City, Montana, 11:30am, Thursday, July 7, with a luncheon to follow at the Sacred Heart Parish Hall.
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roger Seidlitz
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we were very sorry to hear of Steve's passing. The Jack Seidlitz have wonderful memories. John, his football and wrestling manager, Roger on the state championship team.John, Mark, Roger and Kelly all his "boys". God bless the Wood family and than you Mr. Wood for being part of our lives. Jack and Pat Seidlitz and family
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Ed Diemert
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To the Family of Coach Wood. Steve was my coach in Football and Wrestling in the early 70's. He was also my history teacher, and he taught Montana history and this was one of my favorite classes. To this day, I take the dirt roads to places in Montana just to see the places of Montana you don't see unless you get off the main highway. My memories of Coach are many. I remember in wrestling, when I was getting prepared to wrestle a match, I would get pumped up and just before I took the mat he would say to me as his final words of encouragement " Don't get pinned". I would bet him a steak dinner if I won. He never did pay for all those dinners, as I had to diet to make weight. This was an incentive for me and I thank him for it. Coach was a tough coach, but he treated his players great, made us feel special. When I was a Junior, I was not going to go out for sports because of my commitments at our farm with chores and my hog business. Anyway, he wanted me to come out for football and he made it so I could go home at 1:00 during school to do chores and get back into school for practice. Also, I was a referee for wrestling, and I remember one time I was refereeing a match between Chester and some other rival team in Chester. Anyway Coach was on my butt for what ever, and eventually I kicked him out of the gym. I was a little nervous about the confrontation that would occur when I got done and had to see and talk to him to pickup my paycheck. Nothing happened, and I think our relationship became better.
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LeAnn Dinsdale
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I remember writing pages of Montana history. Heaven forbid you nod off during the lecture! Someone did and he smacked the desk, student jumped, desk turned over... Not sure if we laughed but I do now. I know so many things about Montana because of him. Thank you, Jan, for sharing this. I missed it last year. He was a teacher I looked up to.