Barbara Vance

Looking back, I recognize a common theme. Mom always had a heart for any apparently disadvantaged person or creature. Hence, we often had a neighborhood straggler (who otherwise would miss out) invited on a family day trip, raised a crippled ducking, etc. I personally struggled in early elementary school (and the teacher said I'd "always be slow") which just made Mom more determined. They later found my chronic ear infections and the tide turned dramatically. We can be certain that she gave the challenged kids special attention when she taught elementary school. Mom was there to take care of Kelly and Sandy, prescribed bedrest while late in pregnancy with Ben (battling prematurity), helping us for 2 months in Philadelphia. She later volunteered for Hospice for several years. All of these things were done quietly, without fanfare or need for recognition. So obvious now looking back. I hope to honor this with my own actions going forward. Thanks Mom. Love, David