Roger Olsen

Roger Olsen

January 31, 1946 - November 20, 2023

Obituary

Roger Dean Olsen was born on January 31, 1946, in Bremerton, Washington, to Clifford Edwin Olsen and Zoe (Clift) Olsen. During his childhood, he also lived in Virginia and Hawaii before the family resettled in Bellevue, Washington, after his father retired from the Navy. Roger was especially fond of his high school years in Hawaii, where he learned to surf and play the guitar, the beginning of a lifelong love of playing music. He served as sergeant in the US Army in Vietnam, where he learned about the Baháʼí Faith. While on leave in Hawaii, he declared his belief in Baháʼu'lláh and became a member of the Baháʼí Faith. His deep and unwavering faith carried him through many difficult trials throughout life. He loved to share his faith with others and truly saw himself as a world citizen, spreading love, unity, and his belief in the oneness of humanity.


After returning to Washington State from Vietnam, Roger married Patrice (McHatton) Olsen and became a registered nurse, practicing in Neah Bay, Forks, Anacortes and later Spokane, WA. After the tragic loss of his wife during their time in Anacortes, Roger raised their two children, Muhájir and Lua, as a single parent for five years. Eventually, Roger married again, wedding Geralyn West, and they had two children, Rúhíyyih and Dorey. After obtaining his Masters in Social Work from Eastern Washington University, Roger worked for many years as a mental health and addiction counselor, always wanting to be of service to others. Following the onset of illness and unsuccessful back surgery, he spent his remaining years in a wheelchair with chronic debilitating pain.


Despite no longer being able to work, he continued playing music and serving the Baháʼí community. He played fiddle in the world folk music group, Passport, with friends in the Spokane area, wrote songs, and led numerous sing-alongs with his guitar at his children's schools and faith gatherings. He was admired for the beautiful finger-picking style he played on guitar. Roger and Geralyn later divorced but remained supportive parents. Roger eventually entered full-time care in nursing homes in western WA and finally Billings, MT. In each of the places he lived, he shared music with other residents that elevated the spirit of all who participated. He made it his mission to befriend all staff and loved to talk with them about where they were from and of course their thoughts about God. He was proud of his family's Sami heritage and traveled to Samiland in Northern Finland and Norway on a few occasions, and also endeavored to learn the Sami language.


Roger is loved and remembered for his constant generosity of spirit, infinite capacity for friendships, and emphasis on fellowship and love amongst all people he interacted with. He is preceded in death by his parents and his stepmother, Mildred English. He is survived by his sister Rebecca Fielding, his son Muhájir Olsen and his daughter-in-law Marcy Olsen, his daughter Lua Carlson and son-in-law Eric Carlson, his daughter Rúhíyyih Tolton and son-in-law Peter Tolton, his daughter Dorey Olsen, and his grandson Robin Tolton.

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Lonnie Locke
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Meeting Roger on March of 1972 set my life on a forever path. He was in the company of two other persons inviting me to a Bahai event. They had been out all day trying to connect with people in my neighborhood. Mine was the last one left to go. I asked about Bahai and upon having my question answered, let them know that this was the answer I had been waiting a lifetime to hear. I joined Immediately. Roger and Patrice kept returning to my home over and over again to strengthen my fragile condition. I am eternally grateful for the sacrifice. I am happy that he is soaring in the heavenly realm freed from the confines of this world.
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Heather
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Dear Beloved Family of Roger. We met your father during our nightly Devotionals. Despite often being in pain, he always conveyed a generous and loving spirit. His positivity was most admirable. Roger was especially proud of his grandson who he always referred to as Robin Elliot. We are very sorry for your loss, but truly believe his spirit is now with God. With much Baha’i love, Heather & Max
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Cynthia Barrett
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Roger Olsen was a very dear friend to me and I have some fond memories of him. I met him when I was 10 years old at a Baha'i counsel fire where he and many others performed. Shortly after that Roger and his wife, Patrice came to live with us for a short while. Mohajer was just a baby and age as my youngest brother. I used to help out him to sleep and care for them both. My fondness memories of Roger are at sumner school in Eastern Washington and listening to him play guitar and sing. My favorite a as kid was 'Plant a Watermelon Over My Grave and Let the Juice Slip Through' or Warriors of the Rainbow'. But my all time favorite was when he sang harmony with a man with a low baritone voice singing Amazing Grace. I kept in contact with him over the years and he sang at my mom's funeral which was so special. We also shared the same birthday. I have one or two of his music books so I guess this means picking up my guitar again to play tribute to Roger's memory. Cindy Barrett
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Reneau Family
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Roger was present in so many important times in my life especially when he was the assisting RN when Javad was born C section in Yakima.

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